Family & Relationships

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I’ve written on Family

Most of the articles I create about the family and extended relationships can be found at the Mommy Detective website. I create articles on that site but I promote them here. If you subscribe to this site, you will receive a weekly e-mail detailing all the articles I’ve created for the week. Simply click on the ones that apply to your life.

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debbie@https://www.debbiejansen.com

Parents Are Powerful! They can change America in 20 years or less!

The younger generation is struggling.  Some young people are discouraged.   Others have infected our society with ideas that have caused problems all across our country.  Everyone is asking, “Why is this happening?”  “How did we get to this level of chaos?” While we may find hope in Presidents or other leaders, the truth is that no one person can solve this.  Yes, the world needs Jesus.  Yes we better be praying!  But the world – especially our children – needs strong, mature, wise parents.  Parents are the most powerful people in the world.  They can change everything in 20 years or less. The following article is long.  It’s a

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Happy Spouse Dessert

Happy Spouse Dessert A wonderful dessert that can be enjoyed at any time with very little mess. Ingredients…… One desert mix of your choice. Most of the time, I don’t use a mix. I buy the two-bite brownies from Sam’s. They are delicious, and I don’t have to do anything but set them on a plate. Remember: Your marriage is always more important than “what” or “how” you cook. Taking time for your spouse is paramount to anything else. Looking into his eyes or complimenting her will always taste sweeter than any mix or dessert you could make. Never sacrifice time with your spouse for the stress of making something

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Abortion Debate – Just sayin’

  Just Sayin’ Honest, out-of-the-box, creative thinking questions….are the only path to the truth. There are a lot of lies floating around that confuse the “abortion” issue. For example, Those who feel abortion should be the law of the land, like to moan about the lives that will be lost if “abortion” is not available. The Truth is that “abortion” has always been available when doctors are sure the mother’s life is in danger.  One of the best Christian women I ever knew had an abortion during the 1950’s when abortion was an evil word.  Her pregnancy was in trouble.  The baby wouldn’t survive a forced birth and the complications

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How to Train Kids to have more Integrity

Watching news or reading articles is frustrating if you are looking for integrity and character. Too many people think it’s okay to misspeak which is just a cover word for lying. What can we do? Raise a generation of young people that are committed to integrity and a life that matters. The following article was written for Focus on The Family. “How to Train Kids to have more Integrity” can be found on their website through this link.   How to Train Kids to have more Integrity.   I’ve also included it here. How to Train your Kids to Have more Integrity by Debbie Jansen Do your children understand the importance

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Teen Rebellion Can Make You Sick!

Anytime I meet a parent dealing with teen rebellion, they usually have a frustrated, anxious, depressed look.  They may fold and refold a moist kleenex, with shaking hands as they unfold the problems they face.  While most moms dab at swollen eyes, dad’s are red faced and look as if they are going to explode. Teen rebellion feels as if your beautiful sand castle of love has been kicked over and replaced with a billboard that lists all your faults for the world to see.  The love and care you gave your child no longer matters.  He/she is in trouble.  No wonder you feel as though your beautiful child was

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